by hellow533 on Sun Nov 11, 2012 3:56 am
([msg=70714]see How far can love go? (long)[/msg])
At the high risk of sounding like I have been pussified in to the most emotional teenaged girl or something ever, I must as a question. Please know this is out of character for me by a long shot.
This might be my seasonal affective disorder talking, but I have set in to a deep depression about women, love, and anything past family. Are you truly able to say that you would die for your loved one?
Now, I'm not talking about family at this point. I realize I am willing to die for my father and vice versa, it has been proven to me when he saved my life, risking his own. My question is, would you do the same for a woman, or for women, would you do the same for a man?
All I can see is greed, filth, slime walking about the streets. Women cheating, lying, stealing, and men doing the same to women as women do to men. I know of no woman in America who isn't like that either. Humans cheat, they are human. But some have that little tad bit more of self-control. Some are good women, some are good men. But, are people loyal enough to die for one another?
Before you answer, ask yourselves this, would you die for your partner, and would they die for you? Is there anything more than platonic love? I know I'm young but I must know. I have to know, and no my heart has never been broken. I have never had a woman to call anything more than my friend. I have never more than liked any human on earth besides my father. Not even my mother would risk her life for me and I know it for a fact, and neither would I do the same for her.
Please answer this. It has been eating at me for months, you don't even know how much I must know this question. Married couples, or even just couples in a relationship, would you die for each other? Think hard about this, you have to. If I held a gun to your head, and a gun to your girlfriend's/wife's head, whether you believe in god or not, would you be willing to say "Take my life, not hers!".
Could she say the same for you?
How about more? Are you willing to raise a hand to your mother or father? Age doesn't matter, I assume most people on this site are adults however.
Are you willing to sin for this person?
How about more? Are you willing to save this person's life to risk your own, even if they loved somebody else more? Or if they fell in love more with somebody else, would you still do everything you could to protect them, make them happy, and do what it takes to make sure they are safe and able to do whatever they need to do? Would you fight off your own parents, or other family (children not included) or kill to let this person be safe? Blood is thicker than love, but I must know how far love can go. Would you stop your parents from hurting your girlfriend or wife if it meant hurting them, or killing them? Would you do the same even if they didn't love you as much as you loved them, or if they loved somebody else?
I MUST KNOW HOW FAR "LOVE" CAN GO!
The reason is because I can't believe somebody would go through all that trouble, especially if that other person loved somebody else. I don't believe in love myself. Not for anybody besides children/parents, and even with parents love can be only so limited. Prove me wrong. Please, tell me if love does or does not exist, and if you aren't willing to do all the things above then I don't consider it love at all, love means you are willing to do ANYTHING for them. Anything. Break the laws of man, break the laws of god, whether they love you back the same way or not.
If you can’t tell me you would go that far, if nobody can tell me they would ever go that far for somebody who does not love them back, then I won’t stand to believe love exists at all.
I will end it here, can somebody love another person enough to say if that person left them for another partner, they would still do everything in their power to protect them and make them happy?
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